“Be Sure To Establish Rapport with Your Patient” (gulp)

Kris English, PhD

Professor Emeritus of Audiology

University of Akron

Student clinicians have a lot on their minds when they begin new clinical assignments. It’s possible that the exhortation to “establish patient rapport” registers as less important than accurate testing, proper use of technology, and precise documentation — and in the back of their minds, they may also be wondering, “What does ‘establishing rapport’ actually mean??”

Fifty years ago, an assistant professor in nursing1 asked the same question. “[Rapport] has become a cliché, an interpersonal bromide. We all know that it’s a good thing to have – but we’re not really sure what it is” (p. 70). Just recently, a scoping review2 determined that there was as yet no agreed-upon definition for rapport relative to healthcare. Elsewhere, however, “rapport” has been framed as a synonym for “therapeutic relationships”3 and described as “a positive, dyadic concept that comprises positive affect (liking), mutual attention, and coordination”(p. 1129).4

These descriptors are helpful, but the stressor point for students may be less about “what rapport is” and more about “how does one achieve it?”

Back to First Principles

This typical definition from Merriam-Webster for “rapport” (noun)…

a friendly, harmonious relationship, especially characterized by agreement or empathy that makes communication possible or easy

…reveals the clinical challenge: describing an existing relationship does not help us understand the process of establishing or building rapport.

“Rapport as process” starts off in an uncomplicated way. It includes familiar and natural behaviors: warm welcomes, conversations about patients’ lives and interests, giving warning before touching patients, and overall taking time to connect as human beings, as confirmed by patients themselves:

‘I used to teach people to drive cars … I would make sure, before I pulled up or picked anyone up, that I knew what their first name was, what their surname was, their date of birth and a little bit about them, before I’d even met them … No matter what you do, if you’re trying to create a bond or a – yeah, a bond will do – they’re the things you need to start with. Following on from that, you need to know the person’s needs … and their wants’(p. 7)5

[My clinician] was friendly and open, explained what was being done and seemed to understand me as an individual … answered my questions at an appropriate level when prompted…I always get a friendly welcome”(p. 198)6

What We May Not Notice: Unintended Hinderances

Less apparent to us are circumstances that hinder rapport-building, e.g.,

  • When patients sense awkwardness and avoidance (not receiving a warm welcome or eye contact; use of unexplained medical jargon)
  • When patients feel judged and uncared for (perceiving conscious or unconscious prejudice and disregard)2

These negative patient impressions resonate in the literature addressing discordant healthcare dyads. As discussed here, the term “discordant” does not mean that discord or friction or tension exists, but simply describes a dyad where differences exist with respect to:


  • Gender7-10
  • Age5,11-13
  • LGBTQ+ community14-19
  • Race20-24
  • Culture25,26
  • Socioeconomic status27-31

… plus intersections of these and other characteristics. Realistically, we should expect some degree of “dyadic discordance” on any given workday; more importantly, we should be aware that interpersonal differences could prompt behaviors influenced by unexamined implicit biases, resulting in those patient perceptions of awkwardness, avoidance, feeling judged and uncared for.

Discordance is Not Destiny

Working through rapport challenges: A lot to unpack

Implicit biases are part of the human experience, but are not irrevocable. Trainees might benefit from readings,32 discussions, role-playing, feedback about efforts, successes, struggles, and insights.

Of course, difficulties with patient rapport may also be related to shyness, insecurity, self-consciousness, under-preparedness, fear of failure… concerns that supervisors may refer to professional counselors.


A clinician’s ability to establish rapport cannot be taken for granted, and may actually require considerable attention. It may elude definition in research articles but in real-life clinic, we know that authentic patient rapport lays the groundwork for person-centered care.


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